Recently, we have proposed the concept of laser-dressing-effect mediated spin-orbit (SO) control in semiconductor wells, with the laser polarization aligning with the well-growth direction [X. Li et al., Phys. Rev. B 106, 155420 (2022)], facilitating flexible SO control. Here, for covering the full scenario and considering practical applications, we focus on tilted laser fields (TLFs) and build up a generic model incorporating both axial and transverse components of the laser polarization, which are respectively parallel and perpendicular to the well-growth direction, to explore the electrical gate assisted optical multisubband SO control in realistic GaInAs quantum wells with two occupied subbands. We reveal that the two laser components play contrasting roles in affecting SO properties from distinct physical sources, with the axial component directly altering the quantum confinement and the transverse component primarily adjusting the electron density of states. By performing a self-consistent Poisson-Schrödinger calculation (with both TLF and gate bias) in the Hartree approximation, we determine the full scenario of gate assisted TLF multisubband SO control, including intrasubband (Rashba and Dresselhaus ) and intersubband (Rashba and Dresselhaus ) types, . Notably, we achieve adjusting the intrasubband Rashba and of the two subbands while meanwhile not only keeping them of opposite signs but also locking them to essentially equal strength, i.e., , as a result of intertwined effect of the two laser components. This provides a synchronous symmetric Rashba control of distinct subbands, and facilitates the realization of persistent skyrmion lattice that we recently proposed [J. Fu et al., Phys. Rev. Lett. 117, 226401 (2016)], even with different pitches. Also, depending on the width of wells, we observe that can even be pinned at zero as TLF varies while can be flexibly adjusted, greatly fascinating for selective multisubband SO control in particular with suppressed spin relaxation for a given subband. As for the intrasubband Dresselhaus and , which inherit the bulk nature of materials and thus are usually immune to electrical control, we unveil their flexible gate assisted optical tunability. Moreover, regarding the intersubband SO terms, while the Dresselhaus is found weakly dependent on the TLF, the Rashba is optically tunable and is even accompanied by a sign reversal. With the intersubband SO terms, we reveal three distinct scenarios for the spin-resolved multisubband dispersion, featuring the band crossing without spin hybridization and the band anticrossing with and without vertex corrections, respectively. Our work sheds light on experiments incorporating the TLF for a universal control of the Rashba-Dresselhaus SO terms of both intrasubband and intersubband kinds.